When you have walked through the inner fire that burns against all the walls and illusions of security held within your being. When you have faced your own inner hell. When you have been broken down time and time again, and most often by your own mind. When you have literally felt you were going … Continue reading The Void.
Only by going through self-hell, self-questioning, self-doubt, self-distrust, self-paranoia and self-analysation, can a REAL deep sense of self-love, self-respect and self-honour develop. I know how it feels. It crushes us. We honestly feel ill, insane. We end up cowering in a corner, even though we are alone. Wondering if we are mad. At times, we … Continue reading Self-Hell Transforms to Self-Respect.
All those on the journey of self-love, of becoming whole and complete, of discovering the truth of who they are, go through the stages of no longer being able to resonate with their previous lovers, friends and maybe even family. It can feel very sad, as relationships that we may have had for years, no … Continue reading Outgrowing Relationships.
What you are seeking, is seeking you. Creation, existence is the biggest paradox of all time. With this 'mind' we are able to define, name, label and categorise. And in doing so, we give whatever it is we are labelling, its experience to exist in the first place. We are creating it, by naming it. … Continue reading Paradoxical Existence.
I felt it was very important to write this post to counteract all the language often used by spiritual counsellors and advisors of ''You are keeping yourself stuck', and ''You are allowing this to happen.'' While there may be an element of truth to this, hearing this at the time, isn't always helpful, as it … Continue reading You are always doing the best you can in every moment.
Everything outside of us, all the good AND the bad, is all a part of our own psyche energetically. To this, you make think, EH? I'm am not a narcissist, a murderer, or a rapist. And you instantly think of all those really negative imbalanced people who go around harming others. And you compare yourself … Continue reading Integrating All That Is.
Loving yourself is a process. It takes time. Do not expect yourself to suddenly start being loving, kind and gentle with yourself just because you have decided to do so. You will still catch yourself time and time again for weeks, months, maybe even years, still repeating the same overly critical patterns towards yourself. So, … Continue reading Loving Yourself.
There is no pressure to 'know' anything. No 'gut-feeling' or understanding you need to 'work-out'. All just is at it is. All will be as it will. All will be revealed about whatever it needs to at the right time. Just try your best to go with the flow of yourself, moment to moment. No … Continue reading JUST BE.
Every single relationship has its purpose. Especially these sort. I have had a very intense one myself that I truly believed was my ‘Twin-Flame’. Now I know he was an important catalyst. My whole life and myself has completely changed since meeting him. I have read much on Narcissists over the years when in … Continue reading The Purpose of Narcissistic Relationships.
Often in our lives, we face new and different situations or people. We may face big changes that bring about different and difficult feelings. We are often left feeling unsure of what we should be doing or feeling. There is so much different contradictory advice out there, on just about everything in the world. What … Continue reading Follow YOUR Feelings.